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Domestic abuse isn’t always physical. You can use these questions to help recognize some signs of an abusive relationship. If you can answer “yes” to any of these questions, don’t hesitate to reach out to us for confidential help at our domestic abuse support team: 616-287-5346.

Sexual Abuse can have far reaching physical, mental, and spiritual effects on a person. We offer help for those who have experienced sexual abuse and information for those who want to learn more about how to prevent abuse or support survivors. Call our Sexual Abuse Support Team at 616-259-0130

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